The answer is both no and yes. No, because we will become overly familiar with our lover. We will tend to take each other for granted some. It’s going to happen in any long term relationship.
But there are things you can do to keep the true love alive. Start with this insight: a little true love goes a long way. You don’t have to feel like swooning and weak kneed every time you see your mate. You’ve got a life to life apart from the relationship, so go live it without needing to think sweet thoughts of your lover all the time you are apart. Just a few minutes of the feeling of true love a day will go a long way.
First, you can easily feel some true love for a few minutes a day. Here’s a simple way to do this: find three things you appreciate about your mate every day. They can be the same three things, but if you find three things a day to be thankful for about your mate it will make it easier for you to feel love and appreciation for your lover.
Another way to keep true love alive is to express it. Don’t keep it bottled up. Don’t wait for them to express their love. You don’t need a reason, just give them some loving every day. Small simple things will do. A five minute head massage, snuggling on the couch, or giving them a good long kiss instead of the usual peck on the lips.
If you make these two things a habit, by doing them most every day for a month, then you will find true love staying alive and deepening in your relationship. Appreciating something about your mate is not that hard to do, and it will feel good for you, reaffirming your choice and keeping you happier. And expressing some true love without a reason every day for just a few minutes is an awesome habit to develop.
The trick here is to turn these two things into habits. A habit is usually formed when you do something most every day for 30 days. Then it becomes automatic. Make these two things automatic and you will both be happier for it.
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